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Thursday, April 30, 2009

American Odyssey Relay (post #2)

More pics, courtesy of Melissa: http://picasaweb.google.com/nannburke/AmericanOdysseyRelayRunAdventure?feat=email#

And Tracy: http://picasaweb.google.com/tracyangelo/AmericanOdysseyRelay?feat=email#

A week ago today I was running around, packing t-shirts, picking up the team van, picking up some of the team, and getting us off to Gettysburg.

It’s amazing how quickly a week can go, especially when you were awake for two solid days of it!

Like I wrote in my last post, the Odyssey was incredible. I don’t think it’s anything that I could have prepared for, and I don’t think I can hope to recreate the experience. Ok, I could have prepared a little better in the running department! I had one of the easiest difficulties on my legs, and I think I met running expectations. But of course, competitive me, I wish I could have done just a little bit better!

But we’d have a hard time recreating the energy of our team, and especially of our van. (In case I haven’t said this yet: we were a team of 12, with six runners in each of two minivans. Each runner had three legs to complete, ranging in distance from just over three miles to almost 9 miles. My total mileage was just about 14-15 miles.)

The vans overlapped a few times, like at each transition between runner 6 and 7 and runners 12 and back to 1. But the course was also set up that besides these quick transitions, two spots were set up where we could meet up for a bit longer. It was interesting to me how, even during these longer transition spots, we pretty much kept to our vans. I think we were all taken aback by the immediate bonding that happened in our physical push and exhaustion.

And, the awesome shirts (really, wardrobes!) that Keith got us all helped with the cohesion, too!

Tracy, a family friend of Mike’s, was in my van. So Mike, Mike’s mom, Tracy’s mom and Tracy’s daughter joined us at the start in Gettysburg. I was runner two and Tracy was runner three, so they followed us in their own van during those first three legs. That worked out great because they got to truly see how we stopped along the road to cheer a runner on, how the transitions worked, jumping back into the van all sweaty… which helped since on Saturday and Sunday we talked incessantly about the two days!

Our van did an incredible job (I think) of supporting the runners while they were out on the road. We stopped several times along their route to cheer and offer water. There were only 104 teams in the race, and the start times were spread out over several hours – so when Keith, our first runner, started at 11:30 a.m. on Friday, he started with about 6 or 7 other runners. So when you were running, you were never running in close proximity to someone else, and infrequently even saw other runners on the road. So the van stopping to cheer really helped.

I was surprised at how fast the first six hours went. Because we followed our runner so closely, when we were in the van, no one ever opened up a magazine or a book or really even held conversations. We were focused on finding the next turn on the road and jumping out to make sure our runner made the turn (yes, the race set up signs, but not all were very well marked, and you couldn’t see the ones at night -- more on night running in a bit – so each runner was responsible for carrying a set of turn-by-turn instructions in their hand and following them. That’s really tough, so our van would sit at each turn and make sure the runner made it.).

In fact, at about hour five, I realized we hadn’t even turned on the radio, we were that focused.

Once our sixth runner (after a grueling seven mile hill) transitioned to the seventh runner (the first runner of the second van), we went in search of dinner. We had approximately 5 -6 hours off here, but this, too, went quick. We followed the course through all the back roads so we could see the legs the other runners would be on (and we had not other option!), so that was slow driving. We had a nice hour or so dinner. We made some phone calls. We drove to the next transition spot (where van #2’s last runner would hand off back to our first), and we probably only waited there about 45 minutes for that hand off.

I don’t remember exactly, but I think that happened around 9:30 p.m. So our van started our second legs in the dark. We were outfitted beautifully by our team captain, Melissa. There’s a really funny picture that we took of Keith from the van, behind him. When the flash went off, it lit up all his reflective gear and he looks like a Christmas tree!

That night running was pretty scary. These were back roads, so there was no sidewalk or shoulder, so once or twice when a car came towards you, you would literally have to jump into the grass, just to feel safe.

We really tried to follow the night runners even more. In fact, for most of our night runners, the van didn’t let them out of its sight. Keith got hurt on his night run, when he was blinded by a car coming towards him and tripped in a pot hole. Since he transitioned to me, I didn’t know that happened until after my run. Evidently, when he stopped running, he had bloody hands and a bloody knee and a monstrously swollen ankle. Lucky for him he was immediately surrounded by four girls (I was off running!) who wanted to take care of him!

But that didn’t last long, mostly because I was out running. All five of us girls will say it – thank goodness for Keith in our van! He had that van on top of us during the night running and we all felt much safer for it. I was lucky, too, because there was a runner about a half mile ahead of me with a blinking light on her back. We stayed the same distance apart the entire run, and I couldn’t see her body at all. But I could at least focus on that blinking light and see when it would disappear (knowing there was a downhill coming up) or seeing her turn. But, man! Was it dark!

Our most intense time was this night running. Even though by the time I handed off to Tracy it was after 11 p.m., we were all incredibly alert. Tracy lost her directions and depended wholly on the van to tell her when to turn. But her leg ended (this is going to get confusing!) at a high school. The race coordinators set up with this high school that there would actually be FOUR transitions there. They did this so a transition would happen between vans (allowing us to see the other teammates) but also because the high school opened up its locker facilities to us. So the idea was that when the runners went off, the rest of the team would hand back and relax.

Dude! It was pitch black out! We couldn’t leave our runners! But, with this huge transition area, it was also a mad house, and really hard to find where the transitions would all be. We ended up making a large number of split second decisions, that all thankfully worked out. While Tracy was running, we actually dropped two of our other runners (Keith and Laura) off at a really hard turn to make sure Tracy made it. Then I drove the van ahead and got Melissa as close to the transition point as I could so she’d be there when Tracy arrived. Quickly found and picked Laura and Keith back up, then practically threw Angelica and Laura out of the van back at the high school with blankets and water to find Tracy in the mass of people and vans so Keith and I could get back on the road and find Melissa running. It all worked out because of the night runs, Melissa had the “easiest” – it was out and back on one major road, where she was on a sidewalk or shoulder with street lights the whole time. Still scary, but if we had to be late following one running leg, that would be it.

Completely different from Angelica’s! She ran through a residential area where the houses were set way back from the road and acres apart from each other. I didn’t know it could get that dark anywhere.

We were also thankful to have a man in our van when the night running was over and we drove to the next spot where Keith would pick up from the second van. We parked in a parking lot in Antietam and tried to sleep for about an hour and a half. I know all of us, and all of our husbands, felt much better having him there!

We got what shut eye we could before having to start the third grueling leg. There was a lot of pandemonium while we waited for Keith to start running. His ankle was about the size of a watermelon, and there were no facilities to be found. Many hysterical (in hindsight) stories not exactly appropriate for the blog ensued. Let’s just say we didn’t help keep our parklands clean that morning.

The third leg was brutal because of how exhausted we were. We had dinner the night before, but really weren’t eating properly. Hadn’t slept. Were exhausted. And the day quickly became hot.

It was also a bit of a bummer because the van could follow Keith and I on our third legs, but then Tracy, Melissa, Angelica and Laura all ran along the C&O canal – so the car couldn’t follow. Good for them because they were a bit shaded, and there were no turns to make at all. But lonely! And lonely for the van, too. It made the waiting for them much, much harder!

We finally finished our legs and headed to Alexandria. Mike got our bathrooms prepped with towels and shampoo and soap and we all got to take a shower!!! Then we headed to the Mall, to wait for the second van to finish their run.

We had lots of support there, with Jenelle joining in on the cheering. Our last runner, Amanda, pulled up around 5:45 p.m. or so, and we all got to run the last 100 yards together to the finish line.

Of course, I cried. I tend to be an emotional runner.

Afterwards, Debbie (Keith’s wife) threw the mother of all after parties at their suite at the Ritz. Too bad more of the team couldn’t join us! We devoured food, had a few glasses of wine, and I just might have been asleep before we even finished driving home!

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

American Odyssey Relay Race (post #1)











OMG! I have so much to say about the race! It was unbelievable! There's no way to prepare for this kind of thing! I had such an amazing team, especially our van!!

I will write more, but in the meantime, photos!

http://picasaweb.google.com/maureenpetron/AmericanOdysseyRelayRace?authkey=Gv1sRgCJKfiJe1zerZ4gE&feat=directlink

The ones I've marked as "courtesy of Laura" probably won't be the best resolution because I just save them from her FB profile.

More to come, I promise!

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Angela's Angels

Saturday was the gala in Raleigh. It was for a charity called Angela's Angels, and it benefited down syndrome.

Before getting to the great evening, let me tell you one more story about my angel. In fact, that's what I e-mailed to Rob and Kristin on Saturday morning, after Goldie's behavior on Friday, "How's my little angel?"

Rob's response:

"Angelic. Although one quick story: I was walking her last night and not paying very good attention. Goldie spots a mostly-eaten piece of pizza on the sidewalk and tries to eat it. I grab it out of her mouth and throw it to the side a couple of feet away.

Well, I have to tell you that I've never seen a dog her size *pounce* before. But Goldie lunged for that pizza crust like she was a lion going after a zebra. Almost knocked me off my feet. There is simply no denying her when it comes to food. "

That's my girl!

So, Saturday in Raleigh. Gorgeous day. Outside play with the kids, bike ride around the neighborhood, hide and go seek, all the fun stuff. As usual, I can't believe that I was so absorbed in the playing, that I didn't get a single picture of them! I know, I know! What kind of aunt am I?
A bit of beautifying later, Terry, Sara, Mike and I were ready for the gala.




Our plan was to have cocktails on Terry's screened-in porch for a half hour before the limo he scheduled was due to arrive.


It ended up being an hour and a half of cocktails since the limo was an hour late! But here were are on the drive to the gala...



The gala was a lot of fun. Their friends, Robin and Paul, have a son with down syndrome, and Robin is involved with the charity and the event planning. There was a "silent" auction (not so silent, you wrote you name down on a piece of paper to bid and could see everyone else's bid. There was also a live auction with larger prizes, like beach houses and such.
We lost on anything we wanted in the live auction, but walked away with quite a bit from the silent auction. I won a "chef for the day" with Jimmy Reale of Carolina Crossroads, the four star restaurant in the Carolina Inn. So I guess I'll have to go back to Raleigh soon!
And we'll also have to go back for the party Terry and Sara are about to throw. They bid on and won a catered dinner party and a private in-home wine tasting.

Mike also walked away a winner! Besides the big basket of cookies he won, we walked out with two three-liter bottles of wine.
Not names to speak of, but fun nonetheless!
Lots of drinks and dancing later, we were ready to wrap it up. Some final pictures...

It was a great night, and many thanks to Terry and Sara for inviting us!

Friday, April 17, 2009

Breach in security‏

Just received this e-mail from Robert and Kristin. I'm stopping laughing just long enough to post:

"So I came home today while Kristin was still at her barn. Kristin had put Goldie's food in our armoire while she was gone. Goldie somehow figured out how to open the armoire and get the bag containing her food off the shelf. I'm sure you know what happened next: she proceeded to eat all of her food for the weekend.

Despite putting Goldie's food in the armoire, Kristin would like to remind us that we shouldn't leap to any conclusions about whose "fault" this is. Really, it could be anybody.

Anyway, Goldie seems perfectly fine and happy - and still wanting to eat even more. While we're obviously not going to give her anything tonight, we're wondering what kind of food you give her, so that we can get some (modest) portions for her for tomorrow and Sunday.We're really sorry about this! It's been a while since we've both had a dog in the house. Especially one this hungry!"

I told you. They're not going to be our friends any more.

Fun while it lasted

It was fun being friends with Kristin and Robert.

We had some good times, great meals, shared some laughs.

But many relationships come to an end, and I think our end has just begun. Because Kristin and Robert are watching Goldie this weekend.

We dropped her off this morning at their gorgeous Washington, D.C., town home. The one with recently refinished hardwood floors throughout. And probably filled with very, very expensive things.

Kristin is confident that walking Goldie will be fun, and since she is a horse trainer, she won't have need for the gentle leader.

Raise your hand if you've walked Goldie. It's not quite what you expect, is it?

Kristin and Robert are very excited to have Goldie for the weekend, since they are both dog lovers. And Goldie can be the best of dogs. She's lazy, loves to cuddle, and gets so excited to see you.

But she also eats everything in sight, can actually open up cabinet doors, and wags her tail so hard she can break walls... and definitely can break knick knacks and worse, wake you up in the morning.

So, I suspect when Mike picks Goldie back up on Sunday, that just might be our last time seeing Kristin and Robert. If they even speak to Mike on Sunday.

It's been nice. I'll miss them.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Parking

Along with the office move to a new building comes a new parking garage.

And with a new parking garage comes finding a new "usual" spot to park, ignoring the fact that that spot my be someone else's "usual" spot, of course.

Half-way through my second month in this building, I still have yet to find "my" spot.

I arrive earlier than 99% of the parkers in this garage, it seems. I have the pick of the litter when I arrive at 6:10 a.m. (on the mornings I work out) or even when it's not until 7:30 a.m.

That means I get to snag the spots where I can easily back in, and are on the higher levels.

I wasn't really having a problem when I was leaving between 5:45 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. But several times in the past week I've needed to leave around 4:30 p.m. or 4:45 p.m. to get out to Alexandria. And on each of those occasions, I've been parked in by the valet parking.

Which means I have to walk up the ramp, tell them the ticket number on the car blocking me, and wait in line like until one of them is free to move it.

Annoying.

Today I also hope to leave around 4:30 p.m., so I thought I'd be smart about parking. I went down an extra level, staying clear of the spots that had me parked in.

Just a few minutes ago, the office phone rang. It was the main parking attendant. Apparently, although there are dozens of spots marked "Reserved for Interpark Valet" throughout the garage, and I did NOT park in one of those reserved spots, they still like to have that spot for themselves because it's on an end and they can double park around it, and someone just forgot to put up the orange cone this morning, and would I mind moving it.

Where exactly CAN I park in this garage, I wanted to yell into the phone!

But in life, there are a number of people who you really want to help out -- pat their back -- because it'll come around two-fold for you. (Oh, and it's Christian of you -- don't forget that one.) Your boss's secretary, for example. The dry cleaner. The FedEx guy.

I think the parking attendants in your building is one of them, although they are about to lose their spot.

So I moved the car. Heaven knows if I'll be parked in this evening.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Pictures

Pictures are up! Sorry for the delay! Pictures are scattered throughout the previous two posts, now!

Monday, April 13, 2009

The Weekend Continues

After a pretty late and eventful Friday night, it was extremely difficult to get out of bed on Saturday morning and meet Rob for a jog.

We had made the commitment early on Friday to jog, and said we’d meet in the lobby at 8:30 a.m. As we broke up from drinks (we had to debrief with Kristy and Bobby after the Nobu night afterall) at 2:30 a.m., we had the wherewithal to realize 8:30 a.m. would be hard to do.

So we pushed it back to 9 a.m.

I do believe this was one of those mornings where I attempted to jog still intoxicated from the night before. But jog we did, and embarrass myself by having to stop and walk part-way through, I did.

The rest of Saturday was pretty lazy – a late breakfast, a stroll with the group down Lincoln Road and Espanola Way, and attempt to find a cheap pedicure (haha!), a half-hour nap, and then we all gathered again for dinner.

One of Brian’s friends had recommended an Italian restaurant a few blocks from the beach. I wasn’t thrilled at the prospect of Italian (who is when you know you have a bathing suit to wear the next morning?), but had nothing better to suggest.

And I’m glad I didn’t. A jewel of a place, we opted for the five course tasting menu. That, by the way, was the full description of the meal. No, “choose one from this, one from that.” It was described to us as completely up to the whim of the chef that night. What I love about this group is that most of us were game.

Of course it was even better with the wine pairings, too.

Asparagus flan, caramelized fennel risotto, and lots of other deliciousness. Oh, Mike and another one of our group didn’t get the tasting menu, but Mike got this:


Just a big platter of Parmesan and prosciutto.

Also really cool about this place was that there were five people working the entire restaurant. Yes, it was a small restaurant, and it had an atmosphere where you expected to have a slow meal, but still quite impressive. There was a main waiter who was also the host, an assistant waiter/ food runner/ buser, a chef, an assistant chef, and a dishwasher. That’s it.

Three hours later, we headed to a wine bar on the recommendation of one of Robert’s friends. Mike and three of us girls bailed pretty early on that, while the other half of the group lived up their last night in Miami.

Sunday morning was Easter. A gorgeous solo run at sunrise got me in the mood for the day, but Easter services quickly got me out of it!
Mike and I ended up going to a Catholic church with Kristin. As you can probably guess, it wasn’t easy to find a Presbyterian church in South Beach. Catholic churches, on the other hand, were abundant. And we decided the additional fellowship with Kristin was worth going with her.

So we all dressed up and headed out for 8 a.m. service. Note to self: when packing for Miami beach, don’t worry so much about dressy clothes for church.

Mike was one of several people in a suit at the service. Unfortunately, the others were in the swim type of suits. He guessed that he was probably the only person in the church actually wearing socks. Including the priest.

And I know that Holy Week is a busy one for priests and all, but when this one decided to read the lyrics to “Hero” by Mariah Carey as his homily, throwing in a few “Jesus’s,” really, what else could we do but chuckle?

Memorable, yes. Spiritual? Not so much.

Brunch with everyone at Van Dyke’s on Lincoln Road, and then Kristin and Robert had to leave for the airport.

The rest of us headed to the pool one more time, and once Brian finally staked out enough lounge chairs, spent a pretty relaxing afternoon there. Mike made everyone’s afternoon by bringing Corona’s and chips and guacamole we had picked up on the way back from brunch down poolside.

Before Kristy, Bobby, Heather and Brian had to leave we walked to a Cuban restaurant for a late lunch/ early dinner. I had these sliders made of ground sausage and pork and topped with fried onions that were out of this world.

The rest of the afternoon alternated between watching the masters and taking Mike for a long walk down Ocean Drive, back up Collins and finally back over to Lincoln for my Easter chocolate Ghirardelli sundae.

It was a pretty early night for us, one last jog on the beach for me this morning, and now I’m typing this on the plane ride back to DC!

All in all, a hugely successful trip. One of my favorite things to do is eat, and this is a group of champion eaters!

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Let the good times roll

In what will probably be the first of many posts about Miami, I'll at least start with some of the highlights of a great weekend. Professional athletes, incredible meals, bountiful drinking, lots of sun...

Let me start with the players, to help with the stories. Photos are from our dinner at Nobu (yes, the restaurant LOVED it when we started taking flash photos in the middle of dinner)

There's me and Mike.


Bobby and Kristy (they live in Fort Worth) ...


Brian and Heather (they live in Nashville)...


And Robert and Kristin (they live in DC).



We landed Thursday night around 7 p.m., and met Bobby and Kristy for dinner. It's Kristy's 30th birthday, the reason for our trip. Glowing drinks...
and a good meal. Kristy walked out front towards the end of our meal and made friends. This is important because I need to lay the groundwork for how Kristy meets and makes friends everywhere. As she walks back towards our table, she's being accompanied by a gentleman in a suit, who stops, takes her hand, and kisses it.
Bobby's response? "Hm. She probably got something for us."

Indeed, the gentleman continued all the way to the table, and introduced himself as a hotel manager, and could he perhaps take us on a tour of the roof suites?

Kristy is very good at making very good friends.

This is the only photo of mine that came out from the roof. The building used to be owned by Tiffany's (yes, that Tiffany's).

So let's fast-forward to Friday night. (yes, I'm skipping the drinks at the Delano on Thursday night and the beach time Friday, but, well, that pretty much describes it. And no photos.).

We all geared up to dine at Nobu, one of our favorites. We arrived and had a drink at the bar while they were getting out table ready. I had this delic lychee martini. Mike's facing me, and his jaw drops. Not at my gorgeousness, but at the two professional hockey players that walk in behind us.

Mike Green and Nick Backstrom from the Washington Caps. They are with a third guy, who turns out to be Nick's brother. But we don't know this at first.

At first, Mike nearly pees his pants, then tries to stop me from approaching them. Now, in general, I don't like to approach people, even if they are famous. But there were a couple of additional considerations in this scenario.

First, we are now official season ticket holders to the Washington Caps.

And we were in Miami. Meaning, we weren't in their hometown. So they may not have expected to be recognized.

As they were waiting in line to check in with the hostess, I approached them. Excused myself and told we didn't want to bother them, but we did want to say that we were season ticket holders and it was great to see them.

They were extremely gracious and excited. Talked for a moment. Asked what we were doing down here, and we pointed to Kristy and said it was her birthday.

After they checked in with the hostess and also went to the bar to wait for their table, I decided to approach again and ask for a picture.

Which they loved. With the flash. Actually had us take three to make sure they came out. Here's one:

We thanked them and walked a few steps away. A few minutes later, they signaled over to us, and handed out a round of white wines to me, Mike, Kristy and her boyfriend. Extremely generous of them.

At that point, though, we were called to our table, so we literally just accepted the drinks and walked away.

A fantastic dinner ensued. Out of this world fantastic. This group loves food and is adventurous with it. So we told the waitress that we wanted two particular dishes on the menu, but that we wanted to spend $XX per person in food, and could she please bring us what she recommended.

Which, if you don't do that often, is a wonderful way to eat. I've done it now in Naples, at Oyamel in DC, at Nobu, and then the next night at an Italian restaurant (more on that later). We also drank and drank and drank over the course of our three hour meal.
Here's another photo from Nobu, and I think you can tell from both my and Heather's eye's what a good time we were having...

Towards the very end, Kristy left again to smoke. Heather joined her for company. They didn't return to the table by the time we settled up the tab, so we wondered out to the patio bar where we suspected they were.

And none of us were surprised at all to find Kristy and Heather sitting with the two Caps players, the brother, and another guy who may or may not have been a player.

I sat down with that group, and the boys of our group pulled up chairs next to the table, but not included in the group. Kristy and Heather insist (and I believe them) that they were at the sofa/ table first, the players walked out and recognized them, and sat down.

Mike flags a waitress and opens a tab, then orders drinks for all of our group plus the four of them (Red Bulls and vodkas is what they were drinking, which shouldn't surprise anyone).

A few more rounds ensued, and then Mike left to use the restroom. During that period, Backstrom called the waitress over and ordered a magnum of champagne. She first brought seven glasses, for the four players and us three girls, then they told her to bring five more to share with the rest of our group.

That was the interesting thing about these boys. They were stereo-typical: a bit self-centered, liked the girls attention, wanted us to ask questions about them, them, them. They also spoke in Swedish, excluding us, and never asked a reciprocal question.

But, they were never inappropriate with us girls, never including our significant others in any type of conversation, but covering their drinks.

Which brings me to why I pointed out that the magnum of champagne was ordered while Mike was in the restroom. If you recall, he had given the waitress his credit card to open a tab. She brought the credit card back when the campaign was ordered, and gave it to Robert. When Mike walked back, Robert pointed to the champagne and said, "Look what they just ordered." Mike jumped directly to where Robert wanted him to, and assumed that this was on his credit card. You can imagine the conversations between Robert and Mike.

After the campaign was kicked, both groups started to break up. Green and Backstrom picked up both the girls and the rest of our groups tab, again, a dichotomy from their attitude.

We left, half our group went to bed, and half went out for one more drink just to digest, "OMG, what just happened?!?"

The picture will come tomorrow when I get home. And more of our trip is to come, also, but I'm poolside right now and my battery has run pretty low. So more later!

Thursday, April 9, 2009

MIami

Good morning! I can't believe it's been five days since I posted! Where does the time go!?!

I meant to write on Sunday about the great "meet and greet" party that Melissa had for our American Odyssey relay team. Six of the 12 runners were there, and I think that's a great showing! I met a few people from the other van (Have I explained this? There are 12 of us on the team, two vans of six each. I know all but one person in my van.), and we talked about logistics and overall excitement.

Props to Mike for attending and watching the Final Four games in the background while we all talked running!

The work week has just flown by, except for the crazy traffic in the evenings. It's recess, people! Why is it taking me 50 minutes to drive .25 miles through the 9th street tunnel!!

And that brings me to today. Miami day! Not sure I've talked about this much, but Mike and I are joining three other couples in Miami tonight. This is the same group that we went to Vegas with a few years ago. Mike and the guys go to Vegas each year, but so far the girls have only gone once. We traveled to Nashville together in September for one of the couple's weddings, and the group (minus Mike and I) went to Tahoe over the inauguration.

It's one of the girl's birthdays today, and a big one -- 30! I think she's probably the last of the group to turn 30, and I can certainly support a big party for the day! So we're flying out this afternoon, and return on Monday.

Just don't bother yourself with the fact that it'll be over Easter weekend. And that we'll be in South Beach for Easter. I'm sure there are churches in South Beach, right?

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Karaoke

Most of you know that I'd rather spend a night at home with a bottle of wine, cheese and crackers, and friends, instead of going out bar hopping. Every once in a while, I suppose we need to break out of our comfort zone in order to remember how much we really, really prefer our comfort zone.

Last night Mike and I broke out. I'm way too old to be breaking out like this.

We had drinks at Clyde's after work, before heading next door to the Washington Capitals game at the Verizon center. It's important to the story to note that when I say "drinkS," I mean plural for both of us.

After the first period, we met some of Mike's friends from the intramural hockey team he plays on at the Green Turtle, a bar and restaurant that's attached to the Verizon Center (you can go in and out of the bar and the stadium). Another glass of wine. More of the game. Then back to the Green Turtle for even more wine.

Yeah, I know, I should have been having beer the whole time. But when I started with wine, I had no idea this was how the night was going to go! And since I wasn't drinking beer, I was majorly affected by the wine consumption. So much so that when another couple suggested we go out in Alexandria, perhaps to a bar that had karaoke, I thought this was a brilliant idea.


Out to Alexandria, to Nick's on South Picket. Never heard of it? Well, unless you like COUNTRY LINE DANCING, there's no reason for you to know about it.

Nick's was a country bar, with two parts -- the front is a huge area for line dancing. The back is a slightly younger crowd, with karaoke. But mostly country karaoke. And during the karaoke, the audience gets up and line dances!


Even though the other couple were semi-regulars, the four of us stuck out like sore thumbs. Everyone was in jeans, tank tops (boys and girls), cowboy hats (boys and girls), boots (yup, boys and girls), tramp stamps (for the girls), and military buzz cuts (for the boys).

The other couple had on matching red Caps jerseys. Mike and I had on our work slacks and button downs. My pearls and designer clutch really helped, too.

Needless to say, it was a blast. The other couple got up and did a song. Remember how I emphasised that this was a country bar? Did I emphasize that enough? Because they sang "My Humps" by the Black Eyed Peas.

(Pausing here while you digest that.)

I thought I was going to pee the floor.

One electric slide later, and we headed home at a little after 1 a.m.

Which made getting up at 7 a.m. for golf this morning reeeeaaaaalllly nice.

Golf, that would be my comfort zone. Along with wine at home with friends. I remember that now.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Good morning!

Hi all!

Absolutely, positively nothing exciting to report today.

But I've been so lax in my posting, that I thought I'd post just to say that.

I had a tremendously relaxing evening last night. I twisted my ankle at a group fitness class yesterday morning at my new gym (I heart my new gym), and I used that as an excuse to do diddly squat.

(And don't start lecturing me about group fitness classes, and how I shouldn't do them because they are probably what helped cause my knee problems two years ago, because if I don't listen to my husband when he starts down that line, what makes you think I'm going to listen to you? I double-heart group fitness classes.)

So back to diddly squat. I did deliver my HOA dues notices around the neighborhood (see how I have nothing exciting to report?), and I made a delicious salad for dinner. Even cleaned the dishes. Then I dove into a missed Grey's Anatomy, Brothers and Sisters and How I Met Your Mother.

Also dove into two glasses of wine, but who's counting?

Lights out at 9:45 p.m., and when Mike walked in the bedroom at 9:50 p.m., I was already drooling.

I soooo needed that last night.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Thanks

Many thanks to all of you for your warm wishes and thoughts these past two weeks. They've been emotionally and physically draining, that's for sure.

I might have said it before, but it's worth repeating -- I have a great job, with great bosses. I wouldn't exactly call March a slow month for us (the understatement of the year, btw), and everyone was understanding and supportive of my journey up to Philly.

I'm really glad that I was able to spend the time up in Philly. Sure, I joked and complained here and there. But I am so happy I could be there for the aunts - running errands, providing a distraction, anything. I was blessed with hearing a week's worth of stories about grandmom that I never knew before, and I really learned more about who she was, pre-grandmothering.

She died Thursday morning, without any of us there. She wasn't alone, though -- a nun who lived at the Villa was in with her. (You can't possibly imagine how many nuns were in and out of this room all week!) But that didn't surprise me. We made the (good) decision early on not to keep vigil through the nights. It was too exhausting on everyone and wouldn't have done us any good to been even more exhausting. It was my personal opinion (who the hell am I?) that she wouldn't die with her three daughters huddled around the bed. Too much of a tie to them.

The viewing and funeral mass were Sunday night. Many, many thanks to Melissa for making the trip up. She kept wanting to escape the huddle of the grandkids because she thought she didn't belong up there... where as we all wanted her there as someone new to talk to and distract us! So it was perfect!

I gave the eulogy at the end of mass, and was emotional at the end of it. Don't know if it was the stories, or the sadness, or the tiredness, but there you go.

As we all filed out of the church, dark, black clouds were rolling in. The wind picked up a bit. And then... DROP. Big, fat rain drops. DROP. DROP. DROPDROPDROPDROP... POOOOOOUUUUUURRRRRING rain. Complete blackness in a matter of seconds. Sheets of rain. Running nuns! HAIL, people! We ran 100 yards to our car, and were drenched! Literally -- I took my shoe off and poured water out of it. It looked like we all jumped in a pool.

Half the people ran to cars, half ran back into the church. The car shook with the force of wind.

It lasted a few minutes, then Mike and a cousin started to shuttle nuns individually from the church to their cars with umbrellas. Dozens of cars in the parking lot -- two umbrellas.

The next morning was just as crazy, weather wise. The wind gusted up to 20 miles per hour, and the temperature had dropped about 15 degrees. All the kiddies were wrapped up in our pashminas, and it might have been the shortest ceremony at the grave site ever!

We had a fun luncheon though, with a big banquet room that the kids could all run around in. Photos on Facebook if you haven't seen them!

Now it's back to the daily grind, and hopefully some semblance of normal.

I do miss the turn down service at the convent, though.